Sunday Salon: Booksnobbery
May
'08
I work in a bookstore and every day I am faced with some form of book snobbery. It comes in many forms - customers who scoff at those browsing historical romance, people who are shocked that an employee has never heard of Thackery, and others. (A note on that Thackery: at my corporate bookstore job, a man told me I was wasting my English degree simply because I’d never read Vanity Fair.)
Of all the faces of booksnobbery, though, what amuses me most are customers who ask for books they know next to nothing about but get mad at us when we can’t find them. “It’s a classic,” they say, “but I can’t tell you the author or what it’s about; I’m not even sure I can discern the difference between fiction and nonfiction. But you - the bookseller - have never heard of it? You can’t find it? Oh my God! What kind of bookstore are you people running?” It makes my day go by much more pleasantly when those customers call or come in.
An article I came across recently, “You Are Not Your Bookcase,” discusses the books we put in our e-profiles and how we think they define us - and how others define us because of them. Would someone put He’s Just Not That Into You by Greg Behrendt next to Jack Kerouac and Ken Kesey? If they didn’t, would it be more because it wasn’t expected or because they didn’t want to be associated with a self-help relationship book despite the fact that it proved extremely beneficial to them? That this kind of booksnobbery exists is not a surprise.
Take my Thackery customers, for example - the one who was appalled at the bookseller who didn’t know who the author was, the other who was appalled at me because I’d never read a certain title of his. With certain levels of education or interest, people expect you to have every “classic” under your belt. I was an English major and I collect books, therefore my friends look at me when a Jeopardy category deals with authors or books. It doesn’t matter what genre, time period, nationality or theory the category presents - I know everything! So they say.
Why? Why is this expected? It’s not just English majors or booksellers, mind you, it’s everyone. Why in Pierre Bayard’s How to Talk About Books You Haven’t Read did one student lose his social standing simply because he admitted that he hadn’t read Hamlet? I sometimes don’t understand the societal pressures to read what we “should” read - Shakespeare, Dickens, Harper Lee, whatever; sometimes I get an inkling of where they come from and why it’s important that they’re there, but I always question it when I come across it in my day-to-day life. Why am I expected to have read these certain titles? Does the fact that I don’t care make people think that I really do care, that I’m hiding behind my reading insecurities by saying “it really doesn’t matter what I’ve read or what I choose to read as long as I enjoy it”?
So I’m starting my first week taking part of The Sunday Salon by talking about a story no one told me to read; in fact, I judged this book based on its title (just as I’m not afraid to admit I haven’t read Hamlet, I can tell you that I buy books based on covers and titles). It’s a selection from Twilight of the Superheroes by Deborah Eisenberg, a collection of “perfectly shaped studies of human connection and disconnection” (from the back cover). I don’t normally like short stories collections, even though short stories are the only kinds of stories I can write, but I read another one by Ben Fountain recently (Brief Encounters with Che Guevara) and fell to the floor in ecstatic happiness after I was done. I’m hoping that this one will have the same effect, because that totally ruled.
It is hard to catch on, hard to enjoy. The writing style is, well, different… First person present, then second person past, then suddenly we’re experiencing a disaster of epic proportions, but then everything’s fine again. This morning I woke up early and just as soon found myself in a long, stressful day at work; we are tired as the turtle says. Perhaps this book will fare better over the next week. I can definitely see myself enjoying it, but for now I’m having a hard time keeping my brain on the same page as my eyes.
This week I’ve been working on George MacDonald’s collection of fairy tales. I intend to read it thoughtfully so it’s taking me longer than expected. I’ve also been interested in the French Revolution (thanks to that Marie-Therese book I read recently) and a book called Finding Your Roots by Jeanne Westin, which besides being very old (pre-Internet) is helping me put together a family history. I’ve also recently acquired an interesting look at video game culture (Power-Up by Chris Kohler) and a much-coveted hardback copy of John Connolly’s Nocturnes (evidently this makes it the UK edition, as it wasn’t released in hardback in the US or Canada). I would really like to get into these soon.



I totally agree that we shouldn’t judge people based on the books they have or haven’t read. But it is a little hard to understand how an English major could have made it through school without reading “Hamlet.” I’d definitely recommend it. It’s a fast read – shouldn’t take longer than an afternoon to get through. And the rewards for time spent will be vast and last a lifetime.
JLS HallMay
'08
The question of how our bookcases define us is very interesting. I think mine defines me very well, insofar as a person can be “defined” at all. I was not an English major, and I’ve always read, simply, whatever I feel like reading. (This is why I’ve never joined a reading challenge; I don’t want to be told what to read, even by my self!) Another Saloner asked yesterday whether we read the books we “need” to read at certain times in our lives, and I think yes, that’s true, at least for me. So, given the above, it stands to reason that my bookcase must reveal something about the kind of person I am.
JulieMay
'08
JLS - We didn’t read Hamlet in high school (MacBeth, Julius Caesar, and Romeo & Juliet) and in college I only took one course on Shakespeare, during which Hamlet wasn’t assigned (though recommended). The problem is this: There are so many different concentrations in an English program that most people are entirely unaware of. I studied folklore and mythology so most of my reading concerned Homer, Welsh folklore, and fairy tale retellings. I was never once assigned Dickens or Tolstoy, and this surprises people.
Julie - I can definitely agree that our bookshelves define us to a certain extent. Something had to make you buy that book and proudly display it on your wall… However, I do think some people tend to hide the books they don’t want others to see, whether because it’s a part of them they’re ashamed of (the self-help book, for example) or because it projects a different light on the image they’re trying to give themselves. Those poor books lost in dusty corners!
MMay
'08
Welcome to Sunday Salon! And such an interesting post…
It started me thinking about the books that line my various shelves and stacks, scattered throughout the house and collected over a period of almost 50 years…
I do have the requisite English major Shakespeare, Austen, Bronte, and various Norton Anthologies from college. Taking up an even larger portion of shelving are the American literature books -Fitzgerald, Faulkner, Cather, Steinbeck.
Bbut most the books I’ve kept over the years are mainstream “literary fiction,” and most of it written by women - Anne Tyler, Gail Godwin, Mary Gordon, Jodi Picoult, Susan Howatch. I was in college back in the 1970’s when the first “womens studies” classes were offered, and the concerns of American women, particularly wives and mothers, has long been of interest to me. That interest is certainly reflected in my bookshelves.
However, I read mainstream mysteries and “chick lit” as well, because sometimes I want a book to simply entertain me, not necessarily educate or enlighten me.
Great post! Thanks for visiting Bookstack today, and I’ll be back to visit you again soon
Ravenous ReaderMay
'08
I admit it — I’ve never read Romeo and Juliet. People ask me all the time why I don’t like Shakespeare, or how I could possibly be an English major. Yet I’ve read more from Shakespeare than any of them (16 plays, to be exact). Most of the time the people who ask me have never read anything other than tragedies; sometimes they’ve only read Romeo and Juliet. It annoys me to no end. I feel as though they’re saying, “If you haven’t read every single thing I’ve read — including that newspaper article about the puppies for sale — then I must be smarter than you.”
BrittneyMay
'08
RR - I think what people don’t understand is that everyone gets something out of everything they read, and just because someone spent 4+ years of his/her life analyzing literature to a very prickly point doesn’t mean that this someone wants to spend the rest of his/her life reading “smart” books with language no one understands. You hit the nail on the head - I like to read books for entertainment sometimes too!
Brittney - In school I came across more people who had a list of recommended books for educated people, all of which you must have read. Out in the “real world” it seems that I come across more what you’re talking about - people who consider the “list” to be the books they’ve read personally, and if you don’t share their exact interests, likes, and dislikes, you’re out of luck! I also find that people are prone to adhere to the former list (the one someone else made) and lie about whether or not they’ve read those books. That is what confuses/annoys me the most!
MMay
'08
I haven’t read any of Shakespeare’s work. Personally, I find him to be dry reading. Oh, I understand that he is a wonderful writer, but for me I can’t stand him. As for Dickens I have only read The Christmas Carol & that was because it was part of the book club I am in. As for Harper Lee, I would recommend To Kill A Mockingbird. It was good, even if it was a little slow. I had to read it for my novel class in high school.
I hate it when people judge people by the books they read. If you would look at my shelves I don’t think people would actually be able to tell anything about me. I have so many different genres and then in some areas they would be so far off on their judgment that it would piss me off. I have a secret passion for romance novels every now & then. But though I love to read them I am not a huge romantic.
HevMay
'08
First, I love your web design - fancifully delightful. I would like it if someone would try to explain to me what Sunday Salon is about. Or where and when should I try to start participating, if I am allowed.
Got your blog from the libraryThing posts.
LibrarysCatFlusi the LibrarysCat
May
'08
Hi, found your blog on LT. I’m only just making my way around to everyone’s blogs. I look forward to more of your posts. Lol, I only just read “Hamlet” this year. It is good, but I don’t think it’s something everyone has to read!
KathleenMay
'08
Hi - found your blog at LT and wanted to say hello. I can totally relate to people expecting you to know every book in existence. I am the “unofficial librarian” for my large family of readers, and frequently get shocked looks when I respond in the negative to a book request - “What? I thought you read everything?” Well, yes, I read a lot, but every book ever written seems to be asking a bit too much. =)
ElizabethMay
'08
Hiya, I’m another LibraryThinger popping by to say hi. Interesting post. I have an English degree and a Librarianship postgrad AND I’m a librarian… and I still refuse to read Dickens!
Beautifully designed blog by the way!
LyzzyBeeMay
'08
That’s hilariously pertinent to my life right now. I recently bought a bunch of books I want to read this summer and to be honest, it was largely based on what I should have already read, the books people mention like I should oooobviously have already read them, as an English major. I have an insanely long list of such books…. I am constantly overwhelmed by it though because it’s impossible to have read every single book I “should” have read.
gemMay
'08
Don’t read Shakespeare - go and see his plays at the theatre or on film then his work will really come alive. I don’t believe in reading books because I feel I have to. I readwhat i want to and I have very eclectic tastes, some mainstream, some genre fiction, lots of pretty obscure literature and lots of poetry…
Crafty Green PoetMay
'08